Finally, Love That Aligns With the Woman You’ve Worked Hard to Become
If you’re over 40 and you’ve done the inner work, built a meaningful, self-aware life....If you're successful and more “yourself” than ever before…
But love still feels hard to find or sustain, you’re not alone—and you’re not wrong. And it's not too late
This next chapter of love can be the most fulfilling yet—because you’re ready for real.
Real connection. Real intimacy. Real support, respect, and sensuality.
No more second-guessing. No more shrinking. No more pretending.
Whether you're single and wondering if there are any conscious, emotionally available men left…
Or in a relationship that feels flat, disconnected, or stuck in old patterns…
You don’t have to give up on love or desire. You don’t have to try to be loveable. And you get to be cherished, understood and supported.

With over 20 years of coaching experience, I have helped thousands of people create lasting, meaningful relationships. My approach blends deep self-awareness, conscious communication, and attraction principles that work in the real world, for women who want real love.
What sets me apart?
My understanding of both men and women’s emotional needs — from specializing in coaching men on their love lives, combined with my unique background in Authentic Relating, Spiritual Practice, Positive Intelligence (PQ) coaching, and Tantra. I help women reconnect with themselves, and find true love with without falling into exhausting, disheartening dating traps.

Most advice out there still tells women to play by outdated rules, suppress their strength, or “manifest” love through perfection.
The path of Conscious Love is about something deeper: becoming more of yourself, not less.
Integrating 20 years of coaching, and specializing in coaching men, I help you find a relationship where you’re blown away by how loved and supported you feel.
Want to go deeper right now? These are two great places to begin:
Book a private session to clarify what’s blocking love—and how to shift it
Honest, real conversations with experts and couples navigating conscious relationships, mature love, and intimacy that evolves with age.
find out What keeps you from having the best love and sex of your life?
In this powerful talk, I share what I’ve learned from 20 years of coaching men, and what all people need to know to love (and be loved) more fully.

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