Love and Sex Can Be Better Than Ever After 40
Struggle Less. Be Desired and Appreciated More.
If you’ve succeeded in many areas of life and done your best to be a good man, but the love and sex life you want isn't happening...
if you’re dating and wondering:
Where are the women who want something real?
How do I stop attracting women who don’t meet me—or who I can’t fully trust?
Is there a way to be deeply wanted and fully respected?
Or you’re in a relationship where:
The spark has faded
You feel unseen or under appreciated
You want to rebuild connection
...This is the time when you can have the most connected, meaningful, and passionate relationship of your life.
YOU CAN:
Be with a woman who appreciates you for who you are—not just what you provide
Get out of the nice guy trap and emotionally distant relationships
Reignite intimacy and trust in your current relationship—without shame, blame, or giving up
Understand what women really want (without losing yourself to please them)
Bring more confidence, desire, and emotional presence into love and sex
MEET YOUR COACH
Hi, I’m Shana!
With over 20 years of coaching experience, I have helped thousands of people create lasting, meaningful relationships. My approach blends deep self-awareness, conscious communication, and attraction principles that work in the real world, for men who want real love.
WHAT SETS ME APART?
My understanding of both men and women’s emotional needs, combined with my unique background in Authentic Relating, Positive Intelligence (PQ) coaching, and Tantra, allows me to translate and help you understand why women think, feel and do what they do. I support you to create a mind-blowing love and sex life through accessing your sovereignty, confidence, and truth.
What Makes This Different
This isn’t about proving yourself, performing, or becoming some idealized version of masculinity. All of that is exhausting and doesn't get you the love you want.
It’s about showing up as you—real, grounded, open-hearted—and learning how to meet a woman in ways that naturally light you both up.
I’ve spent the past 20 years coaching men through breakups, divorces, sexual disconnection, and midlife longing. I’ve also helped men find the love of their lives after 40—even after deep pain or breakups.
As an ally for men, and a woman who wants you to have what you really want, I act as a translator and a guide to support you to discover your sovereign, confident self -- who knows exactly what to say and how to say it, so you create deep connection and an amazing sex life, without struggle or self-doubt
Want to go deeper right now? These are two great places to begin:
Book a private session to clarify what’s blocking love—and how to shift it
Honest, real conversations with experts and couples navigating conscious relationships, mature love, and intimacy that evolves with age.
Book a private session to clarify what’s blocking love—and how to shift it
In this powerful talk, I share what I’ve learned from 20 years of coaching men, and what all people need to know to love (and be loved) more fully.
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